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PLEASE STOP LAUGHING AT US...
ONE SURVIVOR'S EXTRAORDINARY
QUEST TO PREVENT SCHOOL BULLYING



JODEE BLANCO BOOK TOUR

Thursday, April 26th, 2012
Danville, Illinois
ROE School Works
Two – three hour staff workshops
Champaign, Illinois

Tuesday, May 8th, 2012
Rockdale School District #84
Rockdale, Illinois
INJJA Student Presentation

Monday, June 4th, 2012
Chicago, Illinois
Attorney General Madigans Women & Words Book Party
Session Speaker

Monday, June 11th- Thursday,
June 14th, 2012
Trinidad & Tobago, W.I.
INJJA Day Long Programs
Parent/Family & Community Seminar
& Book Signing on
Thursday, June 14th
Location & Time TBA

Thursday, July 19th, 2012
Iowa Pupil Transportation Association
Des Moines, Iowa
Keynote Address & breakout session

Wednesday, August 1st, 2012
Huntington, West Virginia
Wayne County Schools
Two - three hour staff workshops

Spring Valley High School
One Timber Wolf Lane
Huntington, WV 25704
Times: TBA

Wednesday, September 5th, 2012
St. Francis of Assisi School
Des Moines, Iowa
Day – Long INJJA Program
Open to the Public
Evening Parent/Family
Seminar w/ book signing
Time TBA

Monday, September 10th through,
Friday, September 14th, 2012

Elkhorn Logan Valley Public Health Department
Wisner, Nebraska

Week - Long INJJA Program
Open to the Public
Evening Parent/Family
Seminar w/ book signing
Location & Time TBA

Saturday, September 15th, 2012
Kids in Crisis Conference
Gallipolis, Ohio
Breakout session & book signing

Friday, October 5th, 2012
LaSalle County Staff Workshop
Ottawa, Illinois
Location & Time TBA

For more information about our tour,
please email The Blanco Group at: info@jodeeblanco.com, or
call 708-873-9225.

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Jodee’s newest book released January 2012, The Please Stop Laughing at Me...
Journal. A Safe Place for Us to Talk.


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Welcome to our website - yes, yours and mine. Because chances are, if you've landed here, you and I share something important in common. Both of us have been deeply affected by school bullying and peer abuse. Maybe you're a teen who's lonely and sad because no matter how hard you try to fit in at school, your classmates laugh at you behind your back and constantly pick on you. Maybe you're the bully, or even the bystander, the person who sees another student being hurt and humiliated but who does nothing to help. Perhaps you're a parent who can't stand one more day of watching your child suffer at the hands of his peers simply for being different. You might even be the mom or dad of a bully, and at your wit's end over what to do about it. Or, maybe you're an educator or counselor, frustrated by the pain you witness, yet feeling powerless to stop it.

No matter who you identify with above, I can promise you from my heart that you've come to the right place. Take a moment, close your eyes and breathe. There are solutions. Someone does understand. That someone is me.

Though you'd probably never know it if you met me now, during my adolescence from 5th grade through senior year of high school, I was tormented by my classmates, a total "outcast." Remember the Stephen King movie Carrie? What I went through in school makes that character's experiences seem like a Disney movie. I couldn't do what you have to do to be "cool." I wasn't good at all the things that makes someone popular in school - I didn't want to make fun of the chubby girl with glasses, the gay student, or the shy kid at the back of the class. If I saw something going on I didn't like, I spoke up. These might be great qualities to have when you're an adult, but they're not so wonderful when you're a teenager.

I remember being so lonely in school that I would sometimes wake up in the morning wishing myself to sickness so I wouldn't have to face the teasing and rejection I knew was coming the moment I walked through the school doors. And the harder I tried to fit in, the worse it always got. My parents tried everything to help, but nothing ever did. I wish that there had been someone like me now back then, who had endured the bullying and survived, who could have given us real advice on how to get through it all. Not a psychiatrist or academic, not a clergyman or counselor, but a real person who had been there herself and could show us a way out.

That's why I'm here today, and I think why circumstances have led you to this website. I'm forty five years old now and successful. I turned my pain into purpose - that purpose being to help you. If you've read my New York Times Best-Selling memoir Please Stop Laughing at Us... The Sequel To The New York Times Bestseller Please Stop Laughing At Me..., then you know what happened to me. If you haven't, I don't want to ruin the suprise except to say this: there's a happy ending to my story and there can be for you too. Hopefully, you'll find both information and comfort here.

I want you to know that I’m not just a face in cyberspace. Since the release of my books, I’ve been touring the nation’s schools sharing my story with students, teachers and parents in an effort to motivate change. My day-long in school program is called INJJA (It’s NOT Just Joking Around!) and if you’re interested in bringing me to your school, please go to the seminar tab of this website

I also work with organizations such as police, judicial, government, counseling, PTA’s, school boards, and youth groups. I’ve developed an instructional program for colleges and universities titled “The Desperate Freshman” where I work with administration, faculty, parents, students, and fraternities and sororities to help identify students at risk for becoming hazing and bullying targets. I can come to your school or town, too, and would be honored to be invited. I want to help. Please let me.

Let's get through this together,

Jodee Blanco